Alice Munro’s literary legacy is inseparable from the family story that emerged after her death: a hidden history of abuse, silence, and the devastating choices made around it. In this conversation, Rachel Aviv explains how she reported the story, read Munro’s work anew, and traced the painful connections between art, memory, and family loyalty.
The discussion looks at what Andrea Skinner revealed about being sexually abused by Munro’s husband, Jerry Fremlin, beginning when she was nine. It also examines how the abuse was handled inside the family, why it remained unspoken for so long, and how that silence shaped the lives of Munro’s daughters. Along the way, Aviv and David Remnick revisit Munro’s stories and the unsettling way they seem to echo the emotional and moral conflicts of her own life.
A key thread here is not only Munro’s extraordinary talent, but also the question her work now raises: what happens when the subjects of great art overlap so directly with the damage left behind in a family? This episode offers a searching look at literary greatness, moral failure, and the cost of looking away.
Key Topics
[00:00:00] - Madeline introduces the episode and Rachel Aviv’s reporting on Alice Munro
[00:01:14] - David Remnick on Munro’s status as a master of the short story
[00:02:10] - Rachel Aviv on Munro’s style, themes, and formal range
[00:05:51] - Andrea Skinner’s revelation and the family’s response to abuse
[00:07:59] - The abuse by Jerry Fremlin and how it continued for years
[00:09:48] - Munro’s reaction after learning the truth and why she stayed
[00:11:55] - Munro’s own comments about passivity and “seeing what will happen”
[00:13:01] - How that mindset appears in stories like “Wild Swans”
[00:16:15] - The police report, Fremlin’s confession, and the legal outcome
[00:19:16] - Why the story was ignored for so long by family and media
[00:23:43] - “Vandals” and the fictional echoes of the family secret
[00:25:14] - Andrea reading Munro’s stories and recognizing the emotional pattern
[00:28:51] - The larger question of what art costs, and who pays for it
[00:30:58] - Aviv on judging Munro, grief, horror, and self-awareness
Relevant Links
The New Yorker Radio Hour: https://www.newyorker.com/podcast/the-new-yorker-radio-hour
Rachel Aviv at The New Yorker: https://www.newyorker.com/contributors/rachel-aviv
The New Yorker: https://www.newyorker.com/
The Gatehouse survivor support organization: https://thegatehouse.org/
Alice Munro coverage on The New Yorker: https://www.newyorker.com/news
This episode leaves listeners with a difficult but important lens on Munro’s work: not as separate from her life, but as deeply entangled with it. It asks whether great art can be fully separated from the harm around it, and whether reading more honestly means making room for admiration and moral clarity at the same time.
It also underscores the power of reporting that refuses easy answers. The story is as much about silence, family systems, and delayed truth as it is about one of the most celebrated writers of the 20th century.
[00:00:00] [SPEAKER_00] Hi, In The Dark listeners, it's Madeline. Our team is hard at work at a news story, but in the meantime, I thought you'd be interested in hearing this episode from The New Yorker Radio Hour. It's an interview with one of my favorite writers at The New Yorker, Rachel Aviv, talking with New Yorker editor David Remnick about her latest astounding story. It's about the writer Alice Munro. Alice Munro is one of the most acclaimed short story writers of our time. She won the Nobel Prize in Literature. The New Yorker published more than 50 of her stories.
[00:00:30] [SPEAKER_00] But after Munro died, her daughter Andrea Skinner came forward with a shocking revelation. Andrea revealed that she had been sexually abused as a child by her mother's husband. And she revealed that her mother, the famed writer Alice Munro, upon learning of the abuse, chose to remain with her husband. In this episode of The New Yorker Radio Hour, Rachel Aviv takes us through her reporting, including her reexamination of several of Munro's short stories.
[00:00:59] [SPEAKER_00] Stories that now appear to have been fictionalizing the secret story of her own family. Keep listening for the full episode and be sure to follow The New Yorker Radio Hour wherever you get your podcasts.
[00:01:14] [SPEAKER_05] Welcome to The New Yorker Radio Hour. I'm David Remnick. Alice Munro was a master of the short story in our time, the checkoff of her era. She published more than 50 stories in The New Yorker. And then in 2013, she won the Nobel Prize in Literature. But shortly before her death, her legacy darkened when her youngest daughter, Andrea, revealed that she'd been sexually abused by Munro's longtime partner. This began when Andrea was just nine years old.
[00:01:42] [SPEAKER_05] And it was kept secret in the family, even after the man confessed to it in letters. And so now Munro's ardent readers, and there are a great many of us, are left with this terrible conundrum that a writer of such astonishing powers of empathy could betray her own child. In one of the most astonishing pieces of reporting that the magazine has had the honor of publishing in recent years, Rachel Levive explores the story of Alice Munro and her art,
[00:02:10] [SPEAKER_05] and the terrible secret of her life, and the lives of her family. I thought we should begin by talking about Alice Munro as a writer. She published 50 short stories at The New Yorker at least, and there were people around the office for years who considered her in many ways, you know, the checkoff of the 20th century. Tell me a little bit about her qualities as a writer.
[00:02:37] [SPEAKER_02] I'm not sure that there's another writer where you can read the short story so many new times and each time feel like your understanding has shifted. To me, there's something beyond the sort of incredibly astute descriptions of people's inner lives. There's something formally that she's sort of turned the short story into and sort of stretched the limits of it.
[00:03:04] [SPEAKER_05] What's the work about, really?
[00:03:05] [SPEAKER_02] I mean, it's interesting looking at the Nobel Prize presentation. The secretary is pretty on point. He says she writes about the silent and the silenced, the people who don't make choices, the people who only understand sort of aspects of their life years later when it's been revealed.
[00:03:33] [SPEAKER_02] Many of her early books are about this kind of poor rural upbringing where children are pretty cruel to each other and parents are neglectful and there are a lot of horrific sort of freak events that happen quickly. She kind of writes about each phase of her life as she passes through it, not necessarily about herself, but about people going through sort of crises of middle age
[00:04:02] [SPEAKER_02] and then the crises of late age. And I think her stories are unique in the way that they kind of skip forward, like suddenly you're 15 years forward in time. And someone is sort of only grasping what happened in their past belatedly. The thing that feels sort of most present for me in terms of her writing is the sense that like she'd be moving through the world
[00:04:30] [SPEAKER_02] and someone would say something and then those words would feel like alive to her and she would sort of write a story around those words and that this constantly happened to her where sort of, it almost felt like she was moving through the world in a different way, like things had a kind of secret intensity that she could pick up on and that she wanted to capture somehow.
[00:04:53] [SPEAKER_05] You know, I've been working at The New Yorker for a long time, over 30 years. And Alice died last year, right?
[00:05:03] [SPEAKER_02] Mm-hmm. Last spring.
[00:05:04] [SPEAKER_05] I think I met her once or twice maybe. She very rarely seemed to come to New York. And when she did, it was like a stealth mission. She kept far apart from that so-called literary world, didn't she?
[00:05:18] [SPEAKER_02] Yeah, there was a really interesting letter that she wrote to her agent. And she's saying, like, I cannot go on another book tour. Or in order to sort of be a social self, I have to take so many uppers that I can't sleep for 72 hours. And then in order to sleep, I need to take so many downers that I'm sort of endangering my life and I'm in this sort of dysregulated state.
[00:05:45] [SPEAKER_02] And she was saying, I don't know if I can publish another book if it requires a book tour because it sort of does damage to myself.
[00:05:51] [SPEAKER_05] Now, I have the confession to make. So this past summer, like a lot of people, I read the piece in the Toronto Star by Alice's grown daughter, Andrea. And it was a short memoir in which she said that she had been sexually assaulted by Alice's husband when she was very young, nine years old, I think.
[00:06:14] [SPEAKER_02] Yeah. And she essentially said, you know, my stepfather sexually abused me when I was nine and my mother protected him for our entire lives.
[00:06:26] [SPEAKER_05] And his name?
[00:06:26] [SPEAKER_02] Jerry Fremlin.
[00:06:27] [SPEAKER_05] Mm-hmm.
[00:06:28] [SPEAKER_02] And then Jenny, who is Andrea's older sister, and Andrew, who was her stepbrother, both wrote essays as well, sort of talking about the way that the silence had shaped their lives and their families.
[00:06:44] [SPEAKER_05] I read this piece. My first reaction was one of, I was just startled. I mean, Alice Munro holds a great place in my mind as a reader and, frankly, as a citizen of The New Yorker. She's an important figure. And my second thought, not long thereafter, was that Rachel Levive should write about this.
[00:07:06] [SPEAKER_05] And before I even had a chance to call you and discuss this, I'd heard that you were also thinking the same thing. How did this news affect you? And then why did you decide to get on it as a piece of writing and investigations so quickly?
[00:07:24] [SPEAKER_02] Well, it's funny because the morning that the Toronto Star article came out, my friend who's from Toronto just emailed it to me and was like, Rachel, you should write about this. And then over the next few days, a few other people, friends, were like, you're writing about this, right?
[00:07:38] [SPEAKER_05] What did that tell you?
[00:07:39] [SPEAKER_02] I think because it's about so many things that I, you know, memory, sort of family, trauma, the sort of generational dynamics.
[00:07:50] [SPEAKER_05] The abuse against Andrea by Fremlin, the stepfather, began when she was nine years old. What exactly happened?
[00:07:59] [SPEAKER_02] So Alice was away. Her father was dying. And Andrea asked if she could sleep in the master bedroom. And Jerry Fremlin said, OK, don't tell your mother. And from there, he got into her bed and sexually abused her. She said it didn't even occur to her to tell her mother because she felt so unsafe in that house.
[00:08:25] [SPEAKER_02] And then it continued until she was through puberty, this sort of him exposing himself to her and sort of trying to proposition her.
[00:08:35] [SPEAKER_05] So it went on and on for years. And Fremlin, Gerald Fremlin, had a very strange way of talking about this when he eventually did. He seemed to be obsessed with Nabokov's novel Lolita and much else. Tell me about Fremlin.
[00:08:51] [SPEAKER_02] I mean, so after Andrea told her mother about the abuse in 1992, which is 16 years after it happened, Alice left Jerry Fremlin.
[00:09:03] [SPEAKER_02] And he then sort of unleashed this like torrent of letters in which he was ostensibly defending himself, except what the letters actually were, were like incredibly detailed confessions in which he explained that he was sort of responding to this nine-year-old seductress.
[00:09:28] [SPEAKER_02] And that he knows that there are Lolitos in the world and he was simply being a Humbert, a Humbert.
[00:09:33] [SPEAKER_05] And how did Alice Munro initially react to this letter that she got from her daughter, Andrea, saying to her, sit down, go to a quiet place before you read this? And she gives her the news. How did Alice Munro react?
[00:09:48] [SPEAKER_02] Well, she did immediately leave her partner and go to their second home on the west coast of Canada. And Andrea came there to be with her and felt the experience was not about her. It was about her mother as this sort of betrayed lover. Alice Munro took her Jerry Fremlin back within a month. Within a month. Within a month.
[00:10:15] [SPEAKER_02] And, you know, the way she explained it to Andrea was, you know, I loved him too much. I'm too dependent. I'm too old.
[00:10:22] [SPEAKER_05] How do you make sense of why she stayed? It can't just be, I loved him and I was dependent on him.
[00:10:28] [SPEAKER_02] She was a participant in like a pretty psychologically abusive relationship. And had many of the dynamics of sort of women who try to leave men and don't feel like they can exist without that man. There was a sort of confused idea about misogyny.
[00:10:48] [SPEAKER_02] Like this sort of idea that she often would tell Andrea that it was misogynistic to expect a mother to sacrifice her own happiness because her husband has done a bad thing. And Andrea really internalized that and would tell her mother, like, yes, of course, like no one would ever ask a father to do this. Only a mother. Therefore, I cannot ask my mother to do this.
[00:11:11] [SPEAKER_02] And then I think there was like this sense for Alice that the writing was the most important thing and that she was sort of on a kind of existential level, like living in this, in a way that's hard to describe where she was sort of watching and not totally present.
[00:11:30] [SPEAKER_02] And maybe, you know, not able to really feel her daughter's experience, whether it was, you know, dissociation or some sort of artistic distance that had become her mode of living.
[00:11:46] [SPEAKER_05] Let's listen to Alice Munro talking to Joyce Davidson for the CBC. This is in 1979.
[00:11:55] [SPEAKER_01] Passivity is not something that modern woman is supposed to be content with, let alone striving for. And yet, well, if you're passive, you sit back and watch things and you let things happen. Have you been guilty of that? Oh, yes. I will let situations develop way past the point where I should stop them just to see what will happen, to see what people will say, to see what people will do.
[00:12:22] [SPEAKER_01] It's probably the overriding passion of my life just to see what will happen. Now, is that because you don't want to hurt them? Oh, no. That's only part of it. That's the surface part. That's the social behavior that one doesn't make anyone uncomfortable. But it's also that everything fascinates me that happens between people.
[00:12:45] [SPEAKER_05] The resonant phrase for me there is to see what happens.
[00:12:49] [SPEAKER_02] Mm-hmm.
[00:12:50] [SPEAKER_05] As if the most essential thing is to see what will happen and, by extension, I think, to see how it becomes the material of her art.
[00:13:01] [SPEAKER_02] You know, there's this—that line really resonates because there's this story she wrote years before where a girl is sort of being abused sexually—like sort of being groped on a train. Which one is this? This is Wild Swans. And she says, you know, she just wanted to see what will happen.
[00:13:27] [SPEAKER_02] It's almost the same language, the sense of like, I'm just going to kind of keep going here because I'm so curious.
[00:13:34] [SPEAKER_05] To see what the human behavior will be, positive, negative, or otherwise.
[00:13:38] [SPEAKER_02] And she describes herself as victim and accomplice. And there's this sense of feeling like an accomplice because of that curiosity, of that wanting it to happen or wanting to not interfere with the action that will come to her.
[00:13:55] [SPEAKER_05] It's almost as if she never left her husband and reconciled with her daughters because the conflict was fruitful for her work. Is that unfair?
[00:14:08] [SPEAKER_02] Probably. I mean, I feel like it was more helpless than that because, like, of course, she had like deep wounds from her own life. Like she—
[00:14:17] [SPEAKER_05] Right. She had been beaten badly by her father when she was growing up.
[00:14:20] [SPEAKER_02] In sort of complex dynamics, it was a power game, sort of. She would be beaten and then her mother would sort of come to her like a supplicant with all these treats and she would sort of resist. And then she would fall back into it. And I think, you know, like there's this language of like art monsters, which like sure applies.
[00:14:44] [SPEAKER_02] But I also feel like it's maybe less interesting or true to the experience of, you know, just being very wounded and sort of finding a man who kind of speaks to those wounds. And then—
[00:14:58] [SPEAKER_05] What do you mean speaks to those wounds? Who— To heal them?
[00:15:02] [SPEAKER_02] No, no. Not to heal them. To allow her to sort of unknowingly replicate patterns from her childhood.
[00:15:09] [SPEAKER_05] You know, I went back and reread this piece in the New York Times magazine from 20 years ago by Daphne Merkin. It describes the relationship of Monroe and Jerry Fremlin. And it's not Merkin's fault. This was performed for her in a sense. But she described that relationship in very sporty, genial terms.
[00:15:27] [SPEAKER_02] Yeah. I mean, it's just like an incredible level of sort of living, of performing. And I think, you know, she's spoken about that a lot in interviews of feeling like she is two women. You know, one is the woman who's sort of being what other people want her to be. And the other is the woman who's sort of living a solitary kind of watchful, removed existence.
[00:15:53] [SPEAKER_02] And so—well, the interview with Daphne Merkin was the tipping point for Andrea where she felt like— What year is it? I think it was 2004. Mm-hmm. And she felt like her—she was just being erased. And that was what prompted her to go to the police and report the abuse.
[00:16:12] [SPEAKER_05] How did the police react to that report?
[00:16:15] [SPEAKER_02] I talked to the detective and he was, you know, praising her for being this, like, incredibly straightforward witness who looks him in the eye. And, you know, and she had these incredible letters to back it up. Like, she was handing him the perpetrator's confession.
[00:16:32] [SPEAKER_05] And what came out of that investigation?
[00:16:35] [SPEAKER_02] It was sort of patched up really quickly. He pled guilty to indecent assault. There was no jury.
[00:16:41] [SPEAKER_05] It was a one-sentence admission of guilt in which the first-person pronoun was dropped. Yeah.
[00:16:48] [SPEAKER_02] And then there was a letter that he wrote to his lawyer basically saying the trial strategy is to exclude the press. And at the time of the court case, Alice had planned to leave him and to move in with her friend who had an empty house for her. And then abruptly she canceled the plan.
[00:17:07] [SPEAKER_05] Because, you know, in a sense, in publicity terms, they got away with it. It didn't blow it. And we should say also that Alice Munro in Canada, her reputation was immense. People referred to her as the queen of the literary scene there. It was, you know, people here probably at that time knew other writers, Toni Morrison or John Updike, much more than Alice Munro somehow. But in Canada, it was a different story, no?
[00:17:36] [SPEAKER_02] Yeah, I was surprised talking to the Toronto Star reporter who ultimately broke the story. But she said when she was first proposed the story after Andrea had sent an email, she said no. She didn't want to do it. She didn't want to take down an idol. She didn't want to jeopardize her relationships in publishing. She'd seen Alice Munro as this emblem of feminism. And she'd sort of been inspired by the idea, like, you could tell your own story and take
[00:18:06] [SPEAKER_02] control over your own story. And ultimately, she did change her mind. But even that thought that in 2024, there was like a day-long pause before she was ready to do it. And even before then, Andrea had reached out to a number of journalists, and she got no response.
[00:18:24] [SPEAKER_05] I'm speaking with Rachel Levive, who's reported for The New Yorker on Alice Munro and her daughter, Andrea Skinner. We'll continue in a moment. This is The New Yorker Radio Hour.
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[00:19:16] [SPEAKER_05] This is The New Yorker Radio Hour, and I'm speaking today with staff writer Rachel Levive. In a piece that you can find on newyorker.com called Alice Munro's Passive Voice, Rachel Levive probes with depth and sensitivity what happened in Alice Munro's family after Munro's partner sexually abused her youngest daughter. Andrea, the daughter, told members of her family about it when it happened, including her father Jim Munro.
[00:19:43] [SPEAKER_05] But nobody wanted to tell Alice Munro. Nobody wanted to upset her. And years later, when Jerry Fremlin admitted to the abuse, Alice stood by him. She gradually lost contact with her daughter Andrea. Rachel, we spoke before the break about how the media ignored this story for many years, and it kind of mirrors the way Alice Munro's family dealt with it. You spoke with Andrea Skinner repeatedly and at great length.
[00:20:13] [SPEAKER_05] Here's a recording she made for a survivors group in Canada called The Gatehouse.
[00:20:19] [SPEAKER_07] I was estranged from most of my family for many years. Though I had told most of my family about the abuse when I was 10 years old, no action was taken to protect me, and I was sent back to my stepfather's house. Unfortunately, nobody did anything to stop it or help me heal at that time.
[00:20:50] [SPEAKER_07] And the effects of that were that I felt really devalued and even dehumanized by not just my abuser, but all of the significant people of my life.
[00:21:09] [SPEAKER_05] So, her siblings as well as her mother shut her out.
[00:21:15] [SPEAKER_02] There was this sense of, like, we all need to protect our mother. And this feeling that she was very horribly fragile and that, like, this refrain in the family, like, she'll die if she knows. And the sisters kind of took their cue from the parents. Jenny tried to tell her mother. And actually, Sheila almost told her mother.
[00:21:40] [SPEAKER_02] But they both, there was this kind of mythology of, like, we must not impinge on this great, great career and on this fragile woman.
[00:21:51] [SPEAKER_05] Now, you spoke with Robert Thacker, who's a biographer of Alice Munro. He knew about the abuse.
[00:22:01] [SPEAKER_04] Mm-hmm.
[00:22:02] [SPEAKER_05] What was his rationale as a scholar, as a biographer, to ignore this incredibly pivotal, on-the-criminal-record piece of news?
[00:22:13] [SPEAKER_02] I mean, he just basically said, it's not the book I'm writing. I think what he said to me at one point was, every family has a thing like this.
[00:22:26] [SPEAKER_05] I'm sorry, but how did you react to that when you heard that come out of his mouth?
[00:22:30] [SPEAKER_02] You know, I try not to respond with judgment. I think I just listened, but... But we're sitting here, it's just us two. True. I mean, why write a biography if you're not going to sort of do... Yeah, I think, you know, Andrea said in a letter to him, like, he had responded, you know, I'll make sure I didn't, like, say anything too flattering, essentially, about Jerry. And she said, I didn't mean cross out flattering adjectives. I meant, you know, scrap the whole book.
[00:22:59] [SPEAKER_05] Or write an honest biography.
[00:23:01] [SPEAKER_02] Right. And she said, you know, to ignore this is to ignore sort of the context in which these stories are being created. I think there was this, he was trying to hold on to this idea. And the family members were, too, that something, that this was between Jerry and Andrea. Like, this sort of delusional idea that it was a two-person interaction.
[00:23:24] [SPEAKER_05] What's amazing is how many stories in mid and late career are haunted by, shadowed by, or even, you could say, about this situation. Which is the story that, in your mind, is the most directly infested with this?
[00:23:43] [SPEAKER_02] I think it's Vandals from 1993.
[00:23:46] [SPEAKER_05] Talk about that story.
[00:23:47] [SPEAKER_02] I read the letters that Alice wrote to her agent. And she said, first she wrote that she had started a story and she called it about, it was about the subject. And she said she approached it from different angles and then she felt like she was going to throw up and she burned it. And then two months later she had written a draft of Vandals. It's about a young girl named Liza and her younger brother.
[00:24:14] [SPEAKER_02] And in the summers, they go every day to play with this man and his wife who has sort of become a mother figure. And the man is sexually abusing the children, it sort of emerges. The story is sort of structured as an investigation into whether the mother knows and chooses to look away or doesn't know but should know.
[00:24:38] [SPEAKER_02] And in that story, there are lines or images that are almost lifted from the letter that Andrea wrote to her mother disclosing her abuse. And from a letter that Jerry wrote about their relationship.
[00:24:56] [SPEAKER_02] So it feels, you can sort of see pieces of sort of language, sentences that must have like lit her up in some way or like made her feel like she had to build a story around it.
[00:25:09] [SPEAKER_05] Did Andrea go on reading her mother's stories as they came out in the magazine and in books?
[00:25:14] [SPEAKER_02] She did for a while and...
[00:25:17] [SPEAKER_05] It must have been horrific.
[00:25:18] [SPEAKER_02] You know, she said that for a while it almost, she almost tried to convince herself to be hopeful and she felt like, okay, here she is. She's getting it out. She's working through it. You know, there was one story, Rich as Stink, that has this image of a daughter wearing a wedding dress that burns. And it's this like, and Andrea said, you know, here's this image of innocence destroyed. Like there's this feeling that her mother must understand.
[00:25:48] [SPEAKER_02] And then eventually Andrea realized that like the insights were going to her characters and not to her daughters and not to herself. And then Andrea felt increasingly enraged by sort of the passivity of the characters, the sense of them sort of existing in this like bleak survival mode.
[00:26:07] [SPEAKER_05] One of the striking things about this extraordinary piece is that Andrea doesn't go to pieces. She continues living her life and she has a life. What is it?
[00:26:22] [SPEAKER_02] You know, I think this sort of is a defining problem in her life in a way that she appears to be thriving.
[00:26:29] [SPEAKER_05] Even to her siblings who were deceived by that in some way.
[00:26:33] [SPEAKER_02] Right. And that, you know, in a way as a child it was a coping mechanism. There's a sense that like she held the key to either destroying her family or keeping their family together. And so they all felt like she was kind of the star of the family, the one who was the most like her mother. And she and I had conversations about that where I would say like I'm worried I'm slipping into that state that the siblings are in where you seem to be thriving. I mean, your daughter just said you have this incredible joy for life.
[00:27:01] [SPEAKER_02] You do seem to have this incredible joy. I mean, something she said to me that I found really profound was one of the letters from the 70s that Alice wrote was about being raped by a colleague. First, she says she was so numb that she just walked aimlessly around the city and missed the class she was supposed to teach that day. And then later on she says, well, we'll make a good story.
[00:27:28] [SPEAKER_05] The sense of dissociation is incredible.
[00:27:31] [SPEAKER_02] Yeah. But Andrea said, you know, when I read that letter, at first I kind of felt pain for my mother because I know that feeling of, you know, aimlessly walking around the city. And then she said the next feeling I had was rage that like she did a day of that and sort of moved on to have this incredibly productive life. And I still feel like I'm walking aimlessly around the city.
[00:27:54] [SPEAKER_05] Alice Munro won the Nobel Prize. How did Andrea react to that news?
[00:28:00] [SPEAKER_02] I think what was hardest for her was watching Jenny receive the prize from the king of Sweden because Alice was too weak at that point to go to Sweden. And she felt like, oh, you know, the family really is happier that I'm not in it. Now they can live this one reality.
[00:28:23] [SPEAKER_05] How do you think this affects Alice Munro's literary legacy and how we'll read her in the future? I know lots of people that at first they said, I'm never going to read her again. Your colleague Jiayang Fan who was teaching Alice Munro was – I just had lunch with her. She just – it just rocked her in a most elemental way. How do you think that will affect Alice Munro's being read in the future?
[00:28:51] [SPEAKER_02] A question that feels almost more alive to me is the way that her writing makes you think about art at what expense? Not to sort of deny that it's art and that it has value as art, but to think about what existed in its wake, sort of who was harmed, what was sacrificed.
[00:29:16] [SPEAKER_02] And, you know, that's probably a question that is relevant for many artists, but Alice Munro kind of makes it visible on the page. Like it felt so literal, like, you know, trading your daughter for art. It felt like –
[00:29:34] [SPEAKER_05] And you see it that way?
[00:29:34] [SPEAKER_02] Not as if it were necessarily a conscious decision, but I think, you know, Alice did speak very – with a lot of self-awareness about how she abandoned her mother as she was dying because she felt like she couldn't be the person she wanted to be if she was a good daughter. And that person was a writer.
[00:29:56] [SPEAKER_05] Alice ignored her own mother.
[00:29:57] [SPEAKER_02] Her own mother who was dying, who had Parkinson's.
[00:30:00] [SPEAKER_05] So there's a certain ruthlessness to it.
[00:30:02] [SPEAKER_02] But the repetition. I think that she could speak very honestly and with a lot of self-awareness about how she had to abandon her own mother to become a writer, that I'm sort of feeling that there was a certain awareness probably about how she also abandoned her daughter to be the writer she became.
[00:30:21] [SPEAKER_05] And earlier in our conversation talked about trying not to be judgmental, but in fact writing in no small part is a collection of many judgments along the way, whether about sentences or how a story moves or the judgments you make. And in this story, the real crime is committed by the man, Gerald Fremlin. We shouldn't forget that.
[00:30:50] [SPEAKER_05] And I wonder in the end how you do judge Alice Munro. Generously or something else?
[00:30:58] [SPEAKER_02] I mean, I feel horrified. I feel horrified that – it's hard because like, you know, what would she say? Did she think the work is more important? Is that just sort of what – the decision she made?
[00:31:12] [SPEAKER_05] Do you think she thought of it in those stark terms?
[00:31:14] [SPEAKER_02] I think maybe. Because in that, you know, one of the most like chilling moments for me was when the biographer, Bob Thacker, when I read the conversation between Alice and him about – she was sort of asking him like, what do my daughters want you to do?
[00:31:38] [SPEAKER_02] And he was telling her and she stated really clearly, you know, my daughters want me to admit that I am with a pedophile. But if I did, it would be the only thing people know about me. And I worked a long time to become who I am. And she sort of – I mean, couldn't be more stark than that.
[00:31:59] [SPEAKER_05] Rachel Levine, thank you so much.
[00:32:01] [SPEAKER_02] Thank you.
[00:32:07] [SPEAKER_05] Alice Munro's Passive Voice is the title of Rachel Levine's piece, and you can read it at our website, newyorker.com. And you can subscribe to The New Yorker for reporting like this every week. And that's also at newyorker.com.
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